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Category: Resources & Education

Safe Sex and Birth Control Resources

Safe Sex Resources
>> Bedsider.org
>> Scarleteen.com
>> LGBTQ+ Safe Sex Guide
>> Sexual & Reproductive Health Resources for Adolescents

How to Get Condoms in the US
>> Planned Parenthood: How to get condoms
>> California: Free Condoms for Teens 12-19

How To Get Birth Control in the US
>> Planned Parenthood: How to get birth control pills
>> Nurx
>> The Pill Club
>> Simple Health
>> Wisp
>> Lemonaid Health
>> Amazon now has its own pharmacy that can deliver to your door.

How to Get Plan B in the US
>> Planned Parenthood: Emergency Contraception
>> Where to Find Plan B One Step

Abortion Access in the US
>> Abortionfinder.org
>> I Need An A
>> Shout Your Abortion Resources
>> Plan C: Find Pills
>> Abortionfunds.org

More Help
>> Reddit Auntie Network
>> Domestic Violence Resources
>> Liveyourdream.org Domestic Violence Resources
>> The Trevor Project

 

BLOG: So You’re Going To Buy Sex Toys on Amazon Anyway

You’re aimlessly browsing Amazon one day when you come across the ~sexual wellness~ category. Clicking, you learn that Amazon sells a variety of sex toys. Who knew? You browse further, eventually ending up on a product page that both looks enticing and has good reviews, and you think about that Prime membership with its two day delivery burning a hole in your credit card…

STOP.

Amazon is great for a lot of things but use as much caution as you can muster buying anything that goes in or on your body from that site. Reviews be damned, sometimes what you end up getting does not match the perception of what you thought you were. That “silicone” product might actually be a plastic knock-off. That 5-star lube with half a million positive reviews shows up but the ingredients include sugar alcohols.

But, you say, it’s so convenient. The privacy found in the ubiquity of Amazon-labeled boxes can’t be matched. No one is going to notice one of those packages showing up at your house and automatically think sex toys.

This website – this one, right here – should be a testament to why you don’t need to use Amazon for your so-called ~sexual wellness~. Plenty of sex toy shops use nondescript packaging, ship fast, and have comparable (if not better) prices for similar items you can find on Amazon. SheVibe‘s stock can’t be beat. And then there are sales and coupons and discounts to members and and and…

And yet you’re defiant. You don’t want to take a risk on buying from a better company despite all. What do?

At least stick with the safe stuff.

For starters, how about sex furniture? Perhaps a simple sex pillow? Maybe a waterproof blanket? Maybe you already own a collection of toys and now need storage to keep eyes and hands off your precious? There are different options that range from blend-into-the-background fake book boxes to lockable boxes you can set on your dresser to large multi-purpose storage chests.

There are also pre- and post-care items. Amazon carries shaving cream and after-shave protection spray meant for the bikini area. While perhaps plain old soap and water is best for outside skin, sometimes you’re in a bind and might want to use wipes.

 

If you’re truly determined to buy an actual sex toy from Amazon, a glass or metal toy is less likely to be harmful – or ruin your existing toys – as any defect is likely to be obvious and they’re default easy to clean. The glass wands that look like Sailor Moon merch are pretty popular lately, as is the Njoy metal wand. Maybe you’ll get a cheap knock-off, maybe you won’t.

Ultimately, you’re better off taking a minute, cooking yourself some dick noodles, reading another chapter of Come As You Are, and returning back to the internet to buy your toys someplace better.

An example of someplace better!
 

Resources

These lists will be expanded and placed in separate posts in time. For now, some basic resources:

INFO & GUIDES
https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/ – forum to discuss toys
https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/wiki/index – safe toys info sheet
http://dangerouslilly.com/category/guides/ – many guides about choosing and caring for toys
https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot – very comprehensive guide about women’s bodies
https://medium.com/@thedodil/dildo-envy-the-average-dildo-size-compared-to-the-average-penis-da45ec24ba93 – why dildos aren’t competition

YOUTUBE – education and reviews
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoYxd3E3UXU – making a will, want, won’t list
https://www.youtube.com/user/sexplanations/videos – general sex/relationship ed
https://www.youtube.com/hannahwitton/videos – general sex/relationship ed
https://www.youtube.com/EvieLupine/videos – mostly BDSM ed
https://www.youtube.com/erikalynae/videos – toy reviews
https://www.youtube.com/LilyORileyReviews/videos – toy reviews
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFQ7wh1P7yw – twitter list (see description) and quick visual review
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKjCRZej-jU – ovipositor review

BIRTH CONTROL
https://www.bedsider.org/
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/
https://www.abortionfinder.org/